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It has been called many names: unity-consciousness, yoga (which means "to unite"), Tao (union of Yin and Yang), non-duality, Christ-consciousness, inclusive consciousness, samadhi (which means "bring together" and "union with the divine"), unpolarization, etc.  Whatever the label, they all point to one and the same thing. A rose by any other name is still a rose.

Teachings and teachers of Oneness abound in all major religions and cultures, attesting to its universality.  The message has been repeated countless times, and symbolized countless ways through the ages. Though it's meaning may be widely misunderstood, it's relevance is universal. At the end of the day, all hearts ache for union. All souls pine for Oneness. So why isn't there enough of it going around?  Why has it been slow to gain ground?

This article will cite 3 major hindrances to individual and collective comm-union and then identify solutions.

Figure 1: Christ-consciousness, Oneness, Non-duality

1st Hindrance: Paradox of Non-duality


Duality has it's own culture.  So, too, does non-duality (or Oneness).  The two cultures are polar opposites, locked in a paradox of seemingly irreconcilable differences.  Making sense of both cultures can be a challenge because they have antithetical values, antithetical languages, antithetical viewpoints, antithetical environs, and antithetical practices.  

Choosing the path of Oneness means opening oneself up to the antithetical, bizarro worlds of duality and non-duality. 


  • The dualistic world is polarized, the non-dualistic world un-polarized.  Reconciling the two is a head-scratcher.

  • The polarized view perceives good and evil.  The unpolarized view perceives everything as good. How can both be true? That's another head-scratcher.

  • In the world of duality, Lucifer is the devil.  In the world of non-duality, Lucifer is the light bringer. How can both be true? Another head-scratcher.
    "If life on earth is an illusion and Reality is truly ONE… then in the absence of duality you would see Lucifer as the Light Bringer."  ~ The Law of One, Ra Material

  • The dualistic mind grieves over it's mistakes. To the non-dualistic mind, there are no mistakes. This is another paradox, another head scratcher.


Many cannot make sense of the contradictions between dualistic consciousness of the Ego and non-dualistic consciousness of the Spirit, so they stick to what they know: dualistic consciousness of the Ego, which veils the non-dualistic consciousness of the Godmind.

​2nd Hindrance: Inequality

Jesus Christ taught that Oneness with God is being equal with God: "Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus: Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God."  (Philippians 2:5-6​)

Edgar Cayce, a Christian pastor known as the "Sleeping Prophet," agrees: "To be one with the Father is to be equal with the Father.”  (Edgar Cayce 900-331)

The incongruity of Christianity is that followers do not heed their own Savior's advice. Jesus Christ's message of Oneness—as being equal with God—has been largely ignored and disavowed, then and now:

"I and my Father are ONE." Then they took up stones again to stone him. Jesus answered them, "Many good works have I showed you from my Father; for which of these do you stone me?" They answered him, saying, "For a good work we stone thee not; but for blasphemy; and because that thou, being a man, makest thyself God." Jesus answered them, "Is it not written in your law, 'I said, Ye are gods.' "   (John 10:30-34)

Christianity and Catholicism still maintain a schism of inequality between God and Man.  Whereas Tibetan Buddhism, Hinduisim, and the Kahuna religion of Hawaii are not afflicted by inequality between man and deity.

  • His Holiness Trinley Thaye Dorje, 17th Gyalwa Karmapa of the Karma Kagyu lineage (equivalent to the Catholic Pope)-believed to be an emanation of Buddha-once remarked, "The only difference between you and me is that I know you are buddhas."

  • Priests and shamans of the Kahuna religion of Hawaii consider humanity as gods equal to the Most High. Equality with a Supreme Power is what allows them to easily connect with the One Great Spirit and express the supernatural abilities of deity. 

  • Hinduism believes in the equality of man and deity. I once asked a Hindu preacher, "What Hindu belief or principle prevents your people from crucifying your Christ?" The Hindu preacher replied, "In Hinduism, we believe that we (everyone) are all gods."

Have you noticed that peaceful religions believe in equality with deity whereas religions with a history of violence do not?  Inequality breeds contempt, power plays, schisms, unfairness, violence, wars... and crucifixions.  

Inequality with deity is a human prejudice that prevents truth-seekers from realizing their Oneness with God.  If humans were awake to the truth of our integral oneness-that we are all gods equal with God, as Jesus taught-then would humans treat their fellow men so sacrilegiously?  Of course not.  But rather than wake up to their sacrilege so they can stop it, they hit the snooze button.

Unconscious Separation

3rd Hindrance: Unconscious Separation


Being conscious means knowing WHAT you are doing and WHY in every choice you make.

When God separated His creation into male and female, God knew what He was doing and why. When a surgeon severs a gangrenous limb, he knows what he is doing and why.  These are examples of Conscious Separation.  

Conscious Separations are not harmful. Quite the contrary, Conscious Separation is safe if done responsibly, in a fully conscious state of knowing WHAT and WHY. Division or duplicity is done responsibly to preserve life, health, and safety. 

Severing ties with a bully, or uncoupling from a toxic narcissist are healthy forms of Conscious Separation. They neither corrupt the psyche nor fragment the soul, because a conscious decision was made to protect the inner life.

Unconscious Separation, on the other hand, is duplicitous, subversive, and corrosive to the psyche. It has turned many a soul into Jekyll and Hyde


Self-righteousness is an example of Unconscious Separation.  A self-righteous person is quick on the trigger when it comes to the faults of others, but blind to his own. Beneath his sanctimonious demeanor is a fallen angel posing as a false god.

Conscious Separation

"Otherizing" (Figure 2) is a prevalent form of Unconscious Separation.

Xenophobia (i.e., fear of differences) is another form of Unconscious Separation. It is often the cause of "otherizing."


Lurking in the shadowy recesses of our Dark Side are all the patterns of Unconscious Separation we commit-e.g., how and why we unconsciously practice "otherizing," how and why we give our power away to others, how and why we do "power over" an-Other, how and why we unconsciously trade places with the devil. 

Unconscious Separation is the common denominator of all man-made evil and inequality in the world. It manifests as prejudice, hate speech, bullying, abandonment, strife, murder, rape, cheating, manipulation, stealing, fault-finding, self-righteousness, ad infinitum.

Figure 2: Elizabeth Lesser on "otherizing."

Unconscious Separation fragments the soul, diminishes our light, and leaves behind a trail of broken hearts, broken trust, and damage to life, health, safety, and property. If ignored and allowed to fester, the effects are corrosive, eventually manifesting in the physical body as disease, illness, pain, deformation, and decay.



is the divine romance between two & the divine love bliss when two become one.



"I want both of us to start talking about this great love as if You and I, and the Sun were all married and living in a tiny room, helping each other to cook, do the wash, weave and sew, and care for our beautiful animals. We all leave each morning to labor on the earth's field. No one does not lift a great pack. I want both of us to start singing like two traveling minstrels about this extraordinary existence we share. As if you, I and God were all married and living in a tiny room."  ▪ Hafiz

1 Love

Oneness Solutions

For Inner Work, Healing from Separation, Liberation from Karma, Enlightenment & Ascension

Oneness Solution, Challenge Level: Easy

From "Unconscious Otherizing" to "Conscious Coupling"

The psycho-spiritual anti-toxin to "Unconscious Otherizing" is "Conscious Coupling."

"Conscious coupling" involves reconciling differences and mending Unconscious Separations until there is no "Other."  It involves bridging internal warring factions and seeking all possibilities of union, even when there seems to be none.

There are many ways to "Conscious Coupling" of our painfully separated "other selves."  Elizabeth Lesser suggests a simple, practical approach to end "otherizing" and bridge chasms of disagreement (Figure 3).

Those who practice "Conscious Coupling" of their polarities evolve much faster than those who don't. 

1ness Solution
1ness Restoration
Figure 4
Sacrd Union

Oneness Solution, Challenge Level: Medium

Oneness Restoration

The inner and outer work of self-reunification involves reconciling one's horizontal polarities and vertical periodicities at the heart—seeking all possibilities of union even when there seems to be none—and restoring things to Sacred Union (Figure 4). Woah, did that just fly above your head? Let's break it down then:


Polarity is the horizontal oscillation of human consciousness along the X-axis of the body. Polarization occurs when our consciousness oscillates between 2 opposite poles of the X-axis, e.g., Light vs. Dark, Masculine vs. Feminine, Mercy vs. Severity, etc.


Periodicity is the vertical oscillation of human consciousness along the Y-axis of the body. The opposite poles along the vertical axis are Heaven and Earth, Spirit and Matter, the Holy and the Psychic. For example, your consciousness oscillates vertically along the Y-axis of your body when you are trying to balance spiritual needs and material needs.


is the sacred marriage of one's polarities and periodicities (Figure 4). Sacred Union-or the One Heart of Christ-is realized by uniting internal polarities and periodicities at the heart with tenacious, everlasting love. It's a marriage of Mercy & Severity, Judgement & Clemency, Heaven & Earth, wherein differences are reconciled by seeking all the possibilities of union even when there seems to be none. When love is absent, the result is polarization. When One Love is present, then cross-pollination occurs.


Heaven (+)

Our Spiritual Needs



+ Polarity




- Polarity


 Earth (-)

Our Material Needs

Figure 4: Cross of the Gods.

The Oneness of Christ, symbolized by Jesus on the cross, has an X-axis (polarity) and a Y-axis (periodicity). The nexus at which both axes converge represents Sacred Union of the One Heart.

Reconciling differences (horizontally and vertically) is accomplished by Conscious Coupling of internal polarities and periodicities, as opposed to "otherizing" and other forms of Unconscious Separation. The aim is to restore Sacred Union of one's polarities and periodicities so that you are no longer split 4-ways and pulled in 4 opposing directions.

When Spirit is the Architect and Mind the Builder, the physical result can only be Oneness of purpose in body, mind, heart, and soul—characterized by unity of thought, action, speech, intention, and motive.

People who do Oneness Restoration with the help of an experienced Jungian counselor or psychotherapist tend to progress faster, with less trial and error, compared to those who don't. 

Figure 5 is Mother Nature's example of reconciling differences (horizontally and vertically) in Sacred Union-a Douglas Fir and an Alligator Juniper tree growing together in Pinetop-Lakeside Forest, Arizona, USA. It's not that they don't like each other, but rather both trees have very different climate requirements. The Douglas Fir likes cool, damp climates and higher elevations, while the Alligator Juniper prefers hotter, drier temperatures. To see the two of them growing together under the same conditions is very rare.  As of now, both appear to be healthy and will live together for many years to come. 

Figure 5: Douglas Fir (left) & Alligator Juniper tree (right).

Light Un2 Nation

Oneness Solution for Lilies, Challenge Level: Medium

Restore to Oneness and Be A Light Unto Nations

Those who do Oneness Restoration before and after a Lily Activation evolve faster, happier, and become one integrated whole sooner than those who don't.

The 2nd Lily Covenant-a commitment to Christ-consciousness which every Lily has pledged to uphold-is a commitment to "Restore to Oneness and be a light unto nations." This implies the practice of Oneness Restoration until one becomes "a light unto nations."

It is not enough to be "Christ-consciousness in activation." A Lily who has pledged committment to Christ-consciousness is beholden to God to become "the people's promise, as a light unto nations" (Isaiah 42:6), a a "Christ in the Christ-consciousness."

The outcome of Oneness Restoration for Lilies is the externalization of the transcendent, miraculous inner messiah, who is the humblest servant of all, living a super-conscious divine life on earth, and who brightens a dark world in a way that average humans are unable to do.

Over 7 billion humans emit polarized light like incandescent bulbs.  On the other hand, an integrated super-conscious human who attains "Christ in the Christ-consciousness" radiates unpolarized light like the sun, and brightens a dark world in a way that 7 billion polarized human light bulbs cannot do (Figure 6).

According to Dr. David R. Hawkins, MD, Phd (in his book "Power vs. Force"), the mere presence of such a rare, enlightened individual on earth is enough to balance the darkness caused by millions of people, thereby, reducing the chances of planetary annihilation.


Figure 6: compare the unpolarized light of the sun, which brightens a dark world in a way that 7 billion polarized light bulbs cannot do.

I, the Lord, have called you to demonstrate my righteousness, and have taken hold of your hand, and submitted you as the people's promise, as a light unto nations.  (Isaiah 42:6)

And unto your light, nations shall walk, mighty kings will come to see your radiance.  (Isaiah 60:3)
Shadow Work

Oneness Solution, Challenge Level: Hard

Shadow Work: Befriending & Romancing the Shadow

Clinical psychologist, Jordan Peterson, on meeting his Shadow (Figure 7), said this: "There is a monstrous element to the human psyche that you need to respect... as a loaded weapon."

To repress or ignore one's Shadow whilst chasing the power and gifts of the Light only magnifies the Shadow's power over you.


Attempts to repress, deny, blame, shame, outwit, oppress, overpower or eliminate one's Shadow are doomed to fail. The only thing that can overcome the intrinsic Shadow is L-O-V-E. Nothing else will work.

The Shadow has only one supreme master. Shadow answers only to that Higher Power in us we call God whose essence is Love. If you're willing to endure a very challenging courtship and romantic dinner dates with your Shadow-self, and persevere in the desire for God-like Love and Union with your Shadow-side, then the outcome of your Shadow Work will be an integrated self that is healthy, happy, wiser, and whole; wherein the beastly Shadow has become your staunch ally, protector, best friend, and dearly beloved.

Carolyn Myss and Andrew Harvey offer a free video course entitled "Discover Shadow Work" to get you started.

Those who do Shadow Work with a Jungian-based counselor or psychotherapist tend to progress faster compared to those who aren't because they benefit from the counselor's experience.

Shadow Integration (Figure 8) involves "making the darkness conscious" (citation: Jung), facing internal saboteurs, and mending deep-seated splits (i.e., Unconscious Separation), until one grows into self-love, self-awareness, integrated consciousness, and wholeness.

Romancing the Shadow (Figure 9) is a wholistic and highly effective type of Jungian-based Shadow Work by Connie Zweig and Dr. Steven Wolf.  Click here for more info.


People who "romance the Shadow" tend to evolve faster than those who do "shadow boxing" and, thereby, attain Oneness sooner.

HELPFUL REFERENCES (in case you need more help)

Figure 7: The Shadow.

Figure 8: Shadow Integration.

"There is no coming to consciousness without pain. People will do anything, no matter how absurd, in order to avoid facing their own soul. One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious... Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate." ~ Carl Jung

Oneness Solution, Challenge Level: Expert

Becoming a Christos

"Christ is not meant to be worshiped. He is meant to be emulated."

~ Shunyamurti (Figure 11)

The first Christ came in the perfection through Jesus. The 2nd Coming of Christ is portended by Eckhart Tolle, Paramahansa Yogananda, and Edgar Cayce to be a collective phenomenon-as the spirit of Christ inside imperfect humans so that they can be made perfect and whole.


This implies that the spirit of Christ is no longer a memory of a deceased savior but a resurrected force coursing through the energy cords that connect us.


This implies that the spirit of Christ is no longer up in the skies, or in pages of a bible, but here on earth, performing prophetico-messianic deeds through enlightened human initiates, and leading people to the post-apocalyptic, edenic state of New Heaven and New Earth.

So who are the christos of the Second Coming?

When asked, "Can there be given, in a way we may understand, an explanation of the meaning of the Second Coming of Christ?" the Akashic Records replied through the prophet, Edgar Cayce:

"He who was the Christ will return, will rule, and will teach on this plane. There are reasons, there are purposes for this which may easily be understood, that the greatest of the initiates will come in this day to complete the evolvement of those initiates who might be available for the occupying of this consciousness. There are others who will, at the same time of this reappearance, this Second Coming, be raised to this level so that in effect they will become the Christ in their own consciousness, in their own development.  These in this sense will become ONE together and they will become Christ in the Christ-consciousness. They will become one with God. This is what we seek. This is what we build toward."


Figure 10

Figure 11: the apocalyptic Christ.

The Second Coming is the realization of the Christ-self, followed by the unfolding, the externalization, the actualization of Christ Self in the phenomenal, mental, and material worlds.

2nd Coming
Christ in Christ-consciousness
Unio Mystica

Oneness Solution, Challenge Level: Master

Unio Mystica (Mystical Union with God)

Jesus Christ was a mystic. At the cross, he engaged in mystical union with God-known in Sanskrit as paramananda, or Unio Mystica in Latin. It is a level of Divine Love Bliss and supreme Oneness with God, achieved only by a rare few in the flesh.


His cross (Figure 4) depicts the Sacred Union of his horizontal polarities and vertical periodicities, reconciled at the heart with unconditional love.

The anti-christ, by definition, is anything that opposes the ways of Christ. If Christ is truth, then the anti-christ is falsehood and lies. If Christ is sharing, then the anti-christs are greed, stinginess, and fear-based hoarding. If Christ is One Love, then the anti-christ would be the antithesis of "Love thy neighbor as thyself." 


In the context of Unconscious Separation, anti-christ consciousness is loving your neighbor as if he is an-Other (i.e., "otherizing"). Christ-consciousness is loving thy neighbor as thyself.

Had Jesus viewed his oppressors as the "Other" and himself as "victim," history would have pivoted differently for all of us. 

Therefore, his choice to be in Oneness with naysayers, betrayers, and crucifiers (instead of succumbing to Unconscious Separation of the anti-christ) was crucial. His life was an example of making this crucial choice day-by-day, hour-by-hour, minute-by-minute, and every second leading to the grand finale.

Despite agonizing pain and a bleeding heart, Jesus would not be thwarted from seeking all the possibilities of integral Union. He forgave his crucifiers from a place of Oneness with them, not Separation. Then he entered into the ultimate state of Oneness: Unio Mystica. It was a resounding triumph over the divisive anti-christ.

Unio Mystica is not only the ultimate state of cosmic consciousness, it is also an impenetrable, invisible force shield of One Love that is able to transmute anything negative into nirvana. Jesus was proof of this attainment. According to the Akashic Records, Jesus' mystical ecstasy of union with God perpetually transmuted the vitriol hurled at him by the angry mob into nirvanic love bliss. His nirvana miraculously muted the pain of his bodily wounds and transmuted the venom inflicted by the anti-christ in others.


And so it is written in the Akashic Records, Jesus did not suffer in his final moments. He died in supreme love bliss and mystical union with God. He ascended to Heaven not as the crucified Christ but as the consummate Ascended Master, rapt in the Victory and Glory of the Resurrected Christ.

Author: Rev. Katherine "Kim" Lopa

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